Yeah, yeah; you already have heard this n times that challenges make life what it is. But now, you are ceaselessly pondering how come a series of matters are attempting to ruin your relationship with that #SpecialSomeone. Once spiritual, testing times are definitely welcome; but you hardly expected now reality.
Relationships are what they are because of what the two of you are to each other. This bond between you two is most likely hampered by poor understanding. When both of you have like values and are mad about the other, it is just that a minor mental botheration has been allowed to grow big enough to see you guys disturbed.
Beautiful stories the world has witnessed, are of eternal love that did last despite distress, distance, differences and sometimes even death. There have been tears and pain due to external factors, but the couple knew oneness till the end. You should never forget this, as those tales are indeed to remind you that your now emotional stress is a lot easier to be seen off, when it is only owing to differences or misunderstanding between the two of you.
Thus, all you now need is an open talk with your love. You speak up because it is better late than never. Hope the other gets you and the grief is gone. May your hearts that are synced forever mend your minds soon.
Madness won’t wane, when miles away. But emotional distancing naturally doesn’t work in relationships. So, when times ever feel different again, both of you work on yourself and sort out the matter together at the very onset.